The Sacrament of Holy Matrimony

Congratulations on your engagement and decision to marry in the Church! Holy Mother Church teaches that holy matrimony is a sacred union instituted by God. By preparing for and celebrating your marriage in the Church,
you are proclaiming this sacredness to your family, friends and community. We are happy to assist you! 
May God bless you as you prepare to begin your new life together.

~ The Clergy of St. Thomas Aquinas Church

All couples wishing to celebrate the Sacrament of Holy Matrimony at St. Thomas Aquinas must contact the church office at least eight months prior to the anticipated wedding date, and meet the following criteria:


  • A least one individual must be a Catholic, with no canonical impediments to marriage, and a registered member of St. Thomas Aquinas parish.
  • For couples wishing to celebrate the Sacrament of Holy Matrimony at St. Thomas Aquinas, dates and times for weddings will not be given without meeting with the priest or deacon first.
  • All couples preparing for the Sacrament of Holy Matrimony will be required to meet with the priest or deacon on several occasions.


There is also certain paperwork to be completed. For Catholic(s), a Baptismal Certificate issued within six months of the wedding date must be provided. Those who are Baptized Non-Catholics will need to provide evidence of their baptism in the form of a Baptismal Certificate or other such document provided at the time of their baptism.


The Sacrament of Holy Matrimony is normally celebrated on Saturdays. Wedding times at St. Thomas Aquinas are at 2:00 p.m. Wedding rehearsals are held on Friday evenings.

For more information or to begin your preparation for the Sacrament of Holy Matrimony here at St. Thomas Aquinas, contact Bianca Orbe (704) 549-1607, x210 or 
email.


Ongoing Formation & Support for Married Couples

See below for great resources for married couples!


  • Ongoing Formation & Support for Married Couples

    If you are a married couple and are beginning to encounter challenges or difficulties in your vocation or if you are just seeking some guidance on how to grow closer to the Lord and each other through the Sacrament of Matrimony, St. Thomas Aquinas would like to offer help.  


    Please consider scheduling an appointment with Fr. Deacon Matthew Hanes.

  • Domestic Church (Experience the power of intentional marriage formation within a Catholic small-group community)

    Have you been looking for a way to grow with your spouse that goes beyond marriage prep?

    You desire to grow in faith with your spouse, put in the hard work to improve your marriage, and form deep relationships with other married couples in your faith community.


    You’re looking for the tools, friendships, and resources to live your vocation with your spouse, together as a couple.


    Domestic Church can help you find these things and so much more!


    We have several Domestic Church groups already here in the Charlotte area and our parish.  Check out the website below, and reach out to local contacts Patrick and Jessica Kelty for more info!


    Domestic Church website


    Contact:  Patrick & Jessica Kelty

  • How the Parents of St. Thérèse Can Help You Raise Children for Heaven

    Link to article here

  • Homilies, Sermons, & Talks on Marriage